22 October 2018

Emotional account

Co-living us the place to solve the problem - how to deal with relationships. Any kind of close communications could be problematic with time - initial enthusiasm fading, daily problems growing. Here we are searching for good theoretical model to explain this kind of interactions and practical solutions for that.

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So, our theory so far in two words is following:
Between people there is emotional account [friendship account]. When you do something you put out take from this account. For example you bring a gift to friend - this is investment. You ask friend for a favor - the is withdrawing. Both sides knows about state of this account (more or less adequate). Relationships are stable when balance of investments and withdrawal is equal.
If it unbalanced then people in relationship start to feel disappointment.

Extra:
1. State of balance and amount of investments not always seem clearly. Also communication problems
2. Currencies that put on the balance could be different. Anyy people value then in different ways.
3. Expectations, how fast account can be refilled or empty matter.

How to work with this situation and what kind of currency - soon.

1 comment:

  1. I'd like to add definition of term "frendcoin". This is some nominal value, that could be used to measure actions between people. For example one person helps other with homework. If it's really hard for person which receive help, to do it himself, he could estimate it in 10 frendcoins. For person who provides help, to get a cup of coffee for free is 5 frendcoins value. So, second person could say that help is worth 10 frendoins, and this mean for first person that he could ask for free coffee twice, and emotional account will still be in balance

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